Don't Cheat Brehs

I have experienced the high and lows when it comes to dealing with women.

One of the lowest of the low feelings that can break any man is being cheated on. I've been cheated on twice in my lifetime (that I know off), and although it was a horrible experience, it taught me valuable lessons in life that I will touch on later in this post.

Well everyone has misconceptions about cheating, it does not matter how great you are as a person, how great you treated your partner, how much money you have, the car you drive it can happen to you.

The First Time

The first time I was cheated on I was young and dumb. At that age I thought I knew everything, I was innocent and full of trust and never in my wildest dreams could I think of myself ever been played like those
poor saps you see.

The first time I never thought about it all, when she finally told me that she did I couldn't believe it. I went from anger to sadness to having this pit in my belly. I could not eat, there was not one thing I wanted to do,
my only haven was when I fell asleep as my mind wasn't clouded with painful thoughts then. You think about what you did, could I have done this better or that better when in reality nothing would have changed the outcome.
You think about all the signs you may have missed, how you were a idiot for getting played and start blaming yourself even though you did nothing wrong.  Finally with time you get over it but do you really? more on this later.

The Second Time.

The second time I was cheated on was thankfully not worse than the first.  It still hurt, I still got that bottomless gut feeling, still were clouded with thoughts of pain, but I found out on my own this time.
I had my doubts as she was always talking about her ex and I was like oh really, so I had a logger on my pc and when she used it I got access to her email and fb. And what did I see?  A hidden second fb, messages to her ex, emails to her ex.
The same ex who was so "horrible", that she "hated", yup I was angry in a fit of rage. Pain, angry, and sadness is a horrible mix but thanks to my first experience I was able to exit this situation stronger than I have ever been.

Did being cheated on change me?

Wholeheartedly, you realize you can trust no one. Both women who cheated on me told me they loved me, that they would never cheat, that cheaters disgust them. That they were cheated on in the past and it hurt them so much.  And yet these women
knowing the pain they went to decided to selfishly cheat on me and inflict that hurt and pain on me all for their greed. As a person I can truthfully stand up and say I will never cheat, I have morals and will always remain faithful.

So are you saying don't trust any women?

Pretty much

But every relationship is built on trust, without you have nothing?

There is a quote "trust but verify", and I take it like this, you trust only as much as you can verify, whether it's with a key logger, other forms of snooping etc., I've had exes tell me straight to my face how they love me and care for me and can't wait to get married etc., while 5 minutes before hand they are emailing their ex bf how much they miss him and how great last night was.

So it's better to remain single, don't become emotionally invested and casually date?

Yup pretty much

I think your jaded and bitter, you have to let go of the pain

haha, not jaded or bitter nor am I experiencing pain, the truth upsets those locked into the matrix.


In this day and age with a picture thrown on  a website and a click of a mouse, a women can find someone richer than you, that looks better than you, that says sweeter things than you like that, if you want to trust then go right ahead, and while your at it.... get married brehs