Stop Simping

Simping is a horrible sickening disease that has raised the esteem and entitlement of the ugly, chubby and made women with red flags and faults "perfect".

If every man would take the pledge not to simp the battle would be won, instead we have been breeched at the front lines as simps will do anything to please a woman all for maybe the taste of her vagina.

The sad thing these demonic creatures don't even realize all they are doing is wasting their money, time, and other resources all for nothing.  While they are raising her value and entitlement, another raggedy dude is living off the spoils. You give her 50 bucks that she needed for milk and groceries, she's using that 50 to go to club and taking home treyvathian to rearrange her guts.

You watching her seed for the night, thinking you will be marked as a "good nice guy", she's out grinding on the filth of society.  Maybe one day you will get a simpathy kiss, or a simpathy hug, or maybe a simpathy wedding.

Get married brehs!!

Guide to Conquer Online dating as a Man

Found this in my old archives.......ahem

Online dating is for women as men outnumber women sometimes 3 to 1 , This guide will show you how to eat 

1. Exaggerate a little - if your height is 5'9 to 5'11 bump to 6 feet, many women in searches make sure a guys height is 6 feet. If you have a bachelors bump it up to a masters, if you make 40k a year put yourself in teh 50-75k bracket if there is a option to.

2. Delete your profile every two weeks, as a new user to keep you on the site, dating sites will put your profile at the top of searches and who's online etc., that is why you get alot of clicks in the first few days, weeks then after that your one of the many men who won't get any, by deleting and creating a profile you will always be in front.

3. Realize most women are whores, have emotional problems, are single moms. Don't expect to find a nice righteous down to earth wifey, most of these women are there for attention, for a quick lay, a sugar daddy, or free dates.

4. Keep your profile short and to the point, the main thing people look at yes even women are pictures, no need to write endless paragraphs describing yourself, be concise.

5. Put up like 3-4 pictures of yourself, make sure to google image your photos so they don't tie to you on some xxx hookup site or your instagram. At least one of the photos should be of you outside doing something so you don't look like a homebody

6. Never compliment a woman on her beauty in a message, most beautiful or even average women are getting the hey sexy, wow what is a beautiful girl doing like you on here, pathetic simp messages. Keep it short and concise, and mention something you see on her page and your in.

7. Never message twice if she doesn't reply who cares, onto the next one, get a template set up and use that and just add the one thing from her page.

8. After like 3 msgs and you think your in, get the number, the kik, the whatsapp, take the messaging of the site!!

7. Don't be fooled by fat girl angles, if all you see is her face and not her full body, ask for her facebook or google image one of her images will probably lead you to a instagram or a twitter where you can view her pictures more in depth.

8. if you live in a big city, switch up your zip code a couple times, you will see more of an array of women.

9. Never believe anything a woman says on her page, whatever she says more than likely it's what she's used to dating. I hate liars, cheaters, and players I want a nice guy = I only dated liars cheaters and players in the past, they hurt me alot so i want a safe nice guy.

10. Interests say you like photography, jazz, documentaries, travelling and enjoy volunteering in your free time.

11. Always put long term or looking for a relationship, women will think your serious and not one of those players on the site


sample profile


Where to start......... umm I sold my soul to school (have my *insert bachelors, masters, doctorate") and now to "insert corporation, fortune 500 company, government" for the time been. I've always been told I'm upfront, confident, monosyllabic with impeccable taste in fashion, music and food.

I love to travel (at 15 countries and counting), read (insert what you like to read), volunteer, and photography.

If you like what you see feel free to send a message ( I don't discriminate).

Dating Rules to live by!

1. Always act like you have more than one option.

- When you have only one option, you start to do things you normally wouldn't do. Whether that is simping, saying things you wouldn't normally say, or moving to fast. When you have more than one option you are calm, cool and collective, the :ehh: demeanour is something you should maintain.

2..never compliment her on her beauty until you see her without makeup and other enhancements.

-  Fake eyelashes, spray tans, extensions, wigs, weaves, push up bras, garters, makeup, high heels, it's all a show, manipulative tactics. Never say she is pretty, hot, beautiful until you see the real natural her

3. Never travel more than 7.4 miles for a first date.

-  Yes for a first date don't drive way out of the way to meet a broad.  If you were selling something on craigslist would you travel half n hour, 45 minutes a hour? no you wouldn't right? More than likely you would expect that person to come to a location near you because you hold the power you have the item they want. Take the same approach to dating, you are the man of value, you are the man with the power, view yourself as such.

4. Don't pay for her on the first date

- yeah cough up that money for dinner and a movie or whatever, and get that Thanks but no thanks.  On a first date you are not sure you will click will be compatible.  Would you cough up money at car dealership to test drive?  no right it's free, so take the same mentality.

5. Delete her number after the first date

- some may have different views but again these are my rules,  if I go on a first date and it's great if she views me as 

6. Never bring up commitment or exclusivity, and if you do then wait at least 3 months.

- Commitment is the male vagina, never give it up early. Be patient young grasshopper women will always bring up "so what are we", "am i just a fwb to you" etc.,   a man who brings u commitment and exclusivity is a man with no options, a desperate man again refer to rule 1.

7.  Never text first and never text last. And never text more than 7 words in a text.

- I never ever text first, women have my number if they want to contact me then go right ahead. And I never text last, know when to exit a text conversation a one word reply from a female means the convo ends right then and there.   7 words max in a text long drawn out convos should be kept to a phone call not chatting back and forth with a woman

8.  Never cheat

- yup never cheat, as a man in a relationship always maintain morals and values,  if you don't appreciate or care about the broad you are with then dump her,  women all are over the place zero reason to play one for your own selfish greed

9. Never lie

- honesty is the best policy, always be honest

10. Never say I love you first or at all.

-  words are just words, can a deaf person love without saying it? exactly, keep that L word in your back pocket

How to be a Man Like Me - Part 1

 
1. Gain Knowledge
 
A man uninformative is a man that has already lost. In this generation, no one has an excuse not to increase their wisdom, whether through life experiences, courses or reading materials.
 
 
2. Conquer your Fears
 
Whether it is a fear of snakes, fear of failure, rejection or even public speaking, conquer your fears.  A man, who has not conquered his fears, is a man who will always have an Achilles heel a detriment that may heed success.
 
3. Learn to Live Frugal
 
A man that can live frugal is a man that can live anywhere on the earth and survive. Regardless if it is a season of harvest or a season of famine, a man who can live with little is a man unchained.
 
 
4. Turn Your Weaknesses into Strengths.
 
Lebron James three point percentage in his rookie year 29%. Lebron James 3 point percentage 10 years later 40.6 percent. It may have taken ten years to rise ten percent, but through hard work and dedication it became achievable. Whatever weaknesses you may have, work on them diligently and turn them into strengths.
 
 
5. Always Maintain Control of your Thoughts and Actions
 
I don't drink (alcohol or anything with caffeine), smoke, or even take prescription drugs. Not that I think anything is wrong with drinking, smoking etc., I just have always preferred to be in control of my thoughts, actions, words 100% of the time. Alcohol may get you tipsy, drunk, impair your thought process and lead to situations that would not arise if you were sober. Nicotine can get you mildly euphoric as well as highly addicted.
And prescription drugs have side effects that can give you mood swings. Anything that hinders my ability to think or act coherently is something I cut off from your life.
 

I feel sorry for the Good Women out there.......

For real no sarcasm. I feel sorry for the good righteous women out there, who have to deal with the market out there. By good I'm not talking about you, the scandalous dresser, in the club every weekend, binge drinker, sleeping with different men left and right whore.  Nor I'm I talking about you 110 males in my phone, ass and titty shots on instagram, cursing like a sailor  offering no redeeming qualities but a pretty face and cute smile.

I'm talking about the righteous, submissive, loving, grateful woman.  The type of woman who puts others first, and has the qualities you would want in a mother and wife.  The type of woman who doesn't put out, dresses conservatively. has a motherly way with children and respects her man. The type of woman who has traits of loyalty, a great personality and knows the role a woman should play in the relationship.

Why do I feel sorry for you?

Because of the nature of the game, to compete in this generation you have to basically whore yourself out.  To be called and looked upon as beautiful you have to conform to the manipulation tactics of makeup, weaves, wigs, fake eyelashes, nail polish, high heels, push up bras and garters.

Further finding a good quality man with options, who will wait for sex until he knows you, or even marriage is declining rapidly to the level of almost extinction. Finding a faithful man even in the church is rapidly declining as well, maybe it's the slutty nature of the scandalous women of today that has caused this epidemic maybe not.

Oh please any women can go on a dating site and get 100msgs

That is true, but let's look deeper into this, a good genuine woman who wants a loving, monogamous lasting relationship that will grow signs up on a dating site.

She gets 100 msgs in a day.

Yes more than likely 100% of those guys found her attractive in some way. However how many of those guys just want to smash, and how many of those guys want commitment?  And the few guys that would actually maybe want commitment, how many of them aren't obese, rapists, abusers  Ah and there is the key.


So to sum it up, yes I do feel sorry for the few good quality women out there in this generation.

Having to go through life daily figuring out the few good quality men against the sexual offenders, abusers, cheaters, liars, married men pretending their single, man whores, players, alcoholics, druggies, men with kids, men unemployed, men who don't commit, obese men, gay men, whose main goal is to prey upon you if you look half decent.


Ah well, get married brehettes :)

Samson was a simp!

Even if you are not saved the Bible is a great book that teaches you life lessons.  One of the most important things IMO that the bible has taught me is
that the wrong woman can destroy your life. That even though she may be beautiful and has your gaze and you feel sparks and all that does not mean she is good for you. Just off the top of my head I would like to touch on some of these Bible Stories.

Samson 

What the story of Samson taught me was that, Samson was the strongest man in the world,
a man who could slew armies, a man that had no outer weakness it seemed. Just like many men of the world today
we think we are invisible, that we are strong, but boy oh boy we do have some weaknesses.  Delihah was a beautiful woman, and Samson was entrenched,
he was warned not to be unequally yoked, not to mess with women like Delihah but his thirst was to great. How many of us have been there?  a beautiful lady
shows interest you, even though you know she is no good you say shrugs and fall into her trap. Next thing you know your life is stressed out beyond control,
your doing things you never done before and heading toward total destruction.  The simpish tendencies of Samson led to him losing his power, his strength, his dignity, and ultimately his death.
Let this be a lesson to everyone out there if Samson a man of God who was entrusted with great gifts fell due to the beauty of a woman, what makes you think you won't?

Ahab

Ahab was King of Israel, who like many men of today gave up their religion, their purpose, their manhood all because of whom they decided to marry.
While Jezebel was a beautiful woman, a queen, she was so demonic and knew how to play her husband chords to her liking, she literally brought up his own destruction. Again be careful brehs.

Just two of many men in the bible whose reputation, name, spirit, was utterly destroyed because of the wrong women they decide to let in their life.
Many men sit back after being destroyed and want to chastise women who have destroyed them either in court, or just emotional.
These are the same men who got caught up in looks, the same men who wifed the woman they met at a club or a bar.

So what are you saying don't chase after the beautiful girl?

Nah not at all, what I am saying is make sure the beautiful girl you are chasing at is worth it, make sure her beliefs, her views, her lifestyle matches up with yours.

Or it may lead to stress, destruction and maybe even your death.

Dump her before she Dumps You!

Woah, what kind of ludicrous, bitter, stupid information is this? I love my girl and we've been together
for years.

Hold up and hear me out. I do not mean just dump her right now, or dump her maybe even ever. What I mean is when the signs
are shown that she is getting ready to dump you, dump her first. Women emotionally detach, weeks, months, even years in advance
before they drop the hammer on their unsuspecting boyfriend. By reading the signs you can come out on top.

Here are a few signs that you should dump her before she dumps you

1. She seems Distant.

If your girl seems distant, drop the hammer and get out now.  She always made time for you for the months, years you were dating, now she is always busy,
cancelling plans, short phone calls that used to be long, no longer communicating daily. This is where you sever the ties and come out on top. If your girl no longer contacts you like she
once did you are no longer a priority in her life.

2. She needs Space

Whenever a woman tells you to needs space, run for the hills.  In a relationship your partner is either with you or not, if they need space they are basically telling you
they don't want to be with you.

3. The pet names she used to call you stop.

If she used to call you baby all the time, and is now calling you by your government  DUMP HER!!. You are now basically a friend don't allow her to be comfortable emotionally detaching from you
DUMP HER NOW.

Many men are so oblivious to the fact, when their gf is distant, no longer loves them anymore they think it just happaned.  How can you fall out of love with me so fast, look at all I did bla bla.

Men need to wake up and realize nothing happens that fast, it's why when a women dumps you more than likely it has been plotted for awhile she just finally got to the point where she no longer feels the need
to have you in her life. 

Ever notice if you have ever been dumped, you may have texted or talked to your gf every day for years, but once you are dumped just like that you are nothing?   Read the signs boys, it's like when soemone is being
phased out at work, they slowly take away responsibilities from you, they slowly treat you different, you think nothing is wrong with then boom the hammer drops. If your eyes were open you would have realized months in advance
what was happening.  

Quick Thoughts on a few Films

The Notebook

I always remember when I was a "simp", and got dragged to see the movie "The Notebook", as I sat in the theater eating my popcorn I looked over and my girl at the time was crying.

What's wrong I said?     Don't you see it's so romantic, it's true love.   HAHA, let's dig deep into this "true love" that this filth the notebook portrayed.

The odds of a 16 and 17 year old falling in deep love after a summer fling is Absurd. So are we really supposed to believe a chick who was just dating Ryan Gosling did not even go beyond the honeymoon
stage is going to run back to him ten years later when she is engaged to a rich man? yeah right.

Anyone notice how her fiance is also portrayed as a bad man? the villian?  like he was standing in the way of a beautiful love story.
This man wasted years of his life on this chick, built up her self esteem, loved her with all of his heart, and even allowed her to go back to her hometown and see her ex, only to get cheated on and portrayed as the guy standing
in the way of her following her heart.

Women love that kissing scene "I waited for you for seven years, now it's to late"  aka I waited for you now I'm engaged its to late. 
Not even five seconds cheating on her faithful fiance, I'm sure not one female watching that scene was thinking at this time like wow how could she, nah they were crying omg so romantic.
Well not me I was there shaking my head like what an abomination.

And then after this Allie dumps her fiance and runs to Noah, they get married and have kids, and then we are supposed to feel sorry when she is reaping what she sowed as she's dying of alzheimer's?

 

Titanic

Titanic is another film that causes me to shake my head.  Isn't it funny how the faithful man was painted as such a horrible creature, just because he did not want to
share his woman? He spent hundreds if not thousands of dollars on this cruise for his soon to be wife and her mom, only she is out canoodling and cavorting with some poor little kid?

Which man would not be mad? You pay all that money for that trip and are painted in a crude way, while she dances and prances with some pauper. And to even make this guy look more evil,
they portray him going on a lifeboat, like oh no. A young rich man wants to live how dare he, how dare he not float in the freezing water like all the "good men". And then Rose hides from him, are we really that stupid,
we all know women in that time for the most part did not work or were highly educated, so how is Rose going to provide for herself now?

Rose gets married, has kids, yet in her last days she still thinks back like 80 years ago about some boy who wined and dined her for a few days?  Not her loving husband of decades?

Get married brehs!!!!!

Bride Wars

Ah another one of those films.  Here's another horrible man, a guy who stood beside and dated this chick for TEN YEARS. And what does he get out of this?
Dumped at the altar infront of his friends and family, because she doesn't want it anymore. she wants her space. And then a few minutes later, the same chick
who wasn't sure what she wanted, the same woman who needed space that same.......dancing with another man.

Get married brehs!

Remembering J

It's funny how short life is, but when you are young healthy you don't think about it at all.  You think nothing of planning for the future, saying I'll do it tomorrow when you are not even guaranteed the end of today. This past week I witnessed someone dying right in front of me and
it's a feeling I can't shake nor will I ever forget.

It was a typical Sunday like many others, got dressed and headed out to church.  The familiar faces were there, I was sort of in a cranky mood and just sat off to the side.

Praise and worship was good like always lifting spirits, people were singing, dancing and worshipping.  Every week during meet and greet I would always say Hi to this little old lady,
this week I was so cranky I excused myself to the washroom when it took place.  Anyways this little old lady (lol) started attending the church I go to about 4 months ago.

It was shocking to me because she was a Jewish Christian one of the few I have come across. Never once did this lady get angry, upset, she was always happy, always smiling
with a big heart for others. My nieces loved her and she would always hug them, run after them and was diligent in all matters.

After praise and worship, the few people that attended that Sunday went back to their seats. Tithes and offering were taken up, and after that the message of the day was started to be spoken.
Sadly I was on my phone texting away, not really paying attention.  I took a seat somewhat in the back from everyone, still cranky and couldn't wait till church was over. Suddenly I heard a scream and "Open your eyes".

I looked up and everyone was rushing to the front.  My heart was beating fast as a good portion of my family attends this church, and I was scared something happened to them.

 As I reached the front I saw J slumped to the side, skin turning blue. Everyone around me seemed to be calling 911, I was in a daze shocked.  It took the ambulance like 7 minutes to arrive but it felt like hours, as I just stood there
watching CPR performed on J.

They took her away to the hospital, and we all waited hoping for some good news.  A few members of the church followed the ambulance to the hospital and a hour later they returned letting us know that J has passed away.

Sadness overcame me right away, tears were flowing down the faces of everyone. I hate hugging, but at that moment I hugged everyone I came across. I never cry but tears were flowing down my face at that moment.

To literally see someone talking one minute and then dead the next, happy and smiling one minute and then lifeless the next.  That night I could not sleep at all, the scene was playing in my mind over and over and over again.

Here was a woman full of love, who would never harm a fly, who would give her last dollar to someone in need...... dead. And here I was someone that day filled with malice, crankiness, gluttony yet I was alive and breathing.

J was literally a angel and she touched everyone she came across in a great way, I only had the privilege of knowing J for 4 months, but it was a great honour. I will never forget her smile, her encouraging words, and that her last moments on earth was spent in church surrounded by people she called friends.

I love you J!!

 

Let it out brehs :to:

I've been in therapy the past two weeks, and just letting out all the anger, pain, sadness has been great.

The peace, the calm, no longer holding onto to past memories that were clinging me down.

Ever since my car accident in January where I was a few seconds away from drowning and losing my life, I have made tremendous changes. I'm almost there at the place I want to be.

How to answer when she brings up the sob Stories

As men we have all been there.......on a date and then the exes are brought up. "All my exes have cheated one", "I've been so hurt so bad in the past", "Men have just used and treated me bad", "my ex was such a ass hole". And deep down inside you think how could a man treat this beautiful specimen so horrible, as you may utter such simp phrases such as I would never do that as your fist clenches in anger at how men could be so bastardly.


Well let's dig deeper into these phrases why not? and how to answer them.

"All my exes have cheated one"

A) Ah the old golden one,  this is when you should ask  and did you dump him?  More than not they took him back time after time. Once you hear that, she is not girlfriend material. A woman who takes back is a cheater has low self esteem and poor judgment.

B)  If all her exes have cheated on her, then that is a whole bunch of men who view her as a person who is not worthy of commitment.

C) If all her exes have cheated on her, then she keeps picking the same type of men over and over. And if you are a man of value, a man with traits of loyalty and faithfulness then this will not last.

"I've been so hurt so bad in the past"

Really? And who hasn't?  I've been cheated on twice, manipulated, bank accounts drained, mocked, had to face the embarrassment of cancelling a 200 party wedding 6 months before the date, but you don't see me bringing this up right.   This same women spewing how she has been hurt so bad in the past has carved up more men than a cannibal.  Last date I went on and a chick brought this up, I came right back with the "so how many men have you hurt so bad in the past"  

"Men have just used and treated me bad"

This is when you can bring up the    Gasp, How about choosing better men?   

If you dig deeper you will soon realize the men that just used her and treated so bad, are the men she opened her legs for on the first night, the men who anyone can tell are players, the men she meets at bars and clubs, the men with a bunch of baby mommas, but because there 6 feet tall, brolic, and drive a sporty couple  she keeps falling and falling for it.

"my ex was such a ass hole"

This is one of my favourites. He was such a asshole but you stayed with him for months even years, he was such a asshole but you loved him, had sex with him, swallowed his cum.

TL;DR  DATE BETTER MEN WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!

How to get over your ex

What do I know about getting over someone you scoff?
Well take it from someone who was less than 6 months away from marriage, before he had to end a relationship. Take it from a man who wallowed in grief and depression for many years.
Take it from a man who had to witness 1 of the 2 women he ever loved, send him a wedding invitation in the mail to mock him some more.
So I know a thing or two about getting over a ex and I'll share them with you.

1. Say Nothing or be very concise.

A) If a chick dumps you through text message say nothing.B) If it's over the phone just say ok and I gotta go.c) if its face to face  stay calm and slowly make your exit.

Why?  Keep your emotions in check, the less you say the less of anything you say or do that you will regret later will happen.
Keeping your dignity is one of the biggest and best things you can do. Years later I still kick myself over writing a letter and sending it to a girl I was dating who dumped me. It will also make her ponder why isn't he crying, screaming, begging, getting angry, asking why etc.

2. Don't contact her ever again.

Everyone knows of the no contact rule and trust me it works, by not contacting her, fishing on facebook, twitter, instagram etc. for info. She will slowly but surely get smaller and smaller in your mind.  I've been there a ex on my mind it seems 24/7, first thing when I wake up in the morning and the last thing at night. But by instilling No Contact she slowly started to disappear as every day went on. 

3. Don't be friends with the ex

Exes only want to be friends to relieve their guilt, keep you as a backup in case the new dude doesn't work out and/or string you along to mess with your emotions. I was friends with an ex once and it set me back like almost 5 years of my life because emotions I thought were dead kept reappearing, just dead it cut the cord go your separate ways.

4. Go hardcore and disappear 

 I'm the type of person if the relationship was somewhat substantial to change my number so my heart ain't racing every time I get a text, or a phone call. To  change my email, disable any social networking until I'm healed. From my personal experience this is the quickest and best way,  there is zero chance if you take these steps of her contacting you which kills all the disgusting disease known as hope.  I remember after a breakup I would constantly check my phone I did not want my ex to contact to me but a tiny part I guess would not have minded the ego boost if she cracked and text me or called. When I finally changed my number the release I felt was overwhelming.    As for social networking, I remember I changed my number but a ex hit me up through facebook writing me a message begging for another chance.

5.Remove any pictures 

Yep remove all pictures of you two you may have hanging around, nothing is worse than seeing a picture of you and your ex smiling by your bedside etc.  Again if you can go hardcore, throw all those pictures in the trash, cut the cord now. This goes as well for deleting all pictures of your ex on your computer, yes even the nudes ones and any sex videos you made, now you can always put them on a usb and store it if you must, but why look at the past?

6.  Let your emotions out.

As men we keep stuff inside, but trust me nothing is better than just venting whether it's writing on a piece of paper how you feel, talking to someone who has your back, even going to therapy. Let all that hate, angry, sadness, pain out.  Make sure not to her though, NEVER LET YOUR EX KNOW YOUR EMOTIONS.

7. Travel

Travelling saved me when I was at my lowest point, sulking locked up in my room.  A week away did wonders, being surrounded by beautiful women by the beach without any worries in the world opens your eyes and realize you'll be OK. That it's a big world out there with billions of women and the release you feel from just relaxing enjoying life is great.

8. Realize your ex isn't all that

As a man who has dated models, and beautiful women of different ethnicities sometimes the "damn will I ever get another broad that beautiful again " thoughts hit. Realize you did it once and you can do it again, hell there are hundreds of millions of women out there who look better than your ex if all you care about is looks, and there are tons of other women out there who will be much more compatible, so don't stress it at all. I remember after  I broke up with my ex fiance I was like damn, she was so beautiful, she never wore makeup, barely dressed up but wherever she would go jaws would just drop would I ever get that again.  I mean I wasn't even thinking of how much of a leech, conniving, horrible person my ex was to me just that she was the most beautiful girl in the world (in my eyes), and I'll never be that "lucky again".  It's amazing how your ex could be straight horrible, offering nothing, in your mind you wished many times you could just go your separate ways. But once you are broken up your mind plays tricks on you and suddenly she is a 10/10. Realize your ex ain't that special, your mind is a powerful tool that is playing tricks on you.

9. Hit up relationship forums and read stories worse than yours!! 

Wow you sick bastard!!,  Yup,   you think you got it bad because your ex dumped you, or you found out your ex cheated, or you dumped her and your struggling why did I do that?  Just hit up any relationship forum and read stories of 20 year marriages broken up, or 7 year relationships ended. Realize hey there are others going through this, my situation is not that special, I will get over this. And at least I wasn't married with 2 kids and now paying alimony and child support.

10. Learn from your Mistakes

Learning from your mistakes is key, maybe you didn't follow your gut. I remember in two relationships in my life, I had this feeling and ran into red flags early on when I should have walked away, but the sex was good, they were hot , I didn't want to hurt their feelings so I said screwed it, fell for them and then ended up getting burnt in the end.This taught me in future relationships when I see red flags, or get a feeling to start my engine and get out of there. Remember in all your past relationships the common denominator is YOU!!!

Summing it up BREHS!!!

It's up to you, how long you want to live and battle with the pain. Sad thing is most exes only want you back when you finally reach the point of no longer caring or wanting them back. I say

Only a Few People Truly Care about You

I remember being my young self, popularity at a all time high. People hitting me up constantly, wanting to hang out and spend time with me.
Calling me friend, compadre, brother, talking how they have my back. Years later I look back and ponder where are these folks now? Where are the folks who said
they would have my back through thick and thin? Where are the females who said they loved me and couldn't live without me?  They are out there and could care one iota about you.

The thing many people fail to realize is that most people don't have your back, most people would love to see you fail. Most people will ride for you when the money is coming in, your car is running, your life is going great, but once the struggles pop up they are gone.  It's amazing that the few people that actually do care for you, that you probably won't recognize it and treat them like garbage.

I've been guilty of this as a young man who did not know the ways. 

A Girl Named M

Years ago when I was young, there was this girl M.  M was not the most attractive girl out there, but M had a heart of gold. M would call me and text me every day, M would ask how I'm doing, M would cook me little treats and M would genuinely take interest in me and the goals I wanted to accomplish in life.

M was a singer and would invite me out to watch her sing at her youth group, M would invite me out to family gatherings. If I needed a kidney M would have probably given it to me, M was there for me in my worst days and in my best days, however I treated M like garbage.

I took advantage of M's kindness.  I started dating someone and even then I knew it hurt M, but she was still super nice to me. It wasn't until the girl I was dating, gave me a ultimatum of her or M. I was such a simp and addicted to beauty that I chose her and cut off M. 

It's been about 9 years since I've talked to or seen M, however I still remember the kindness and the heart of Gold. 

It's kind of amazing/sad that all the qualities now that I would want in a wife if I were to ever get married brehs M had. Even almost a decade later, all the women I have canoodled and cavorted with there is only one woman I could truly say cared for me and that was M.  

Years ago I found M on facebook, she's married now with a few kids and living in a south american country making a difference in people's lives.   

Don't be guilty of doing this, remember when you down and out the few people who were actually there. The few people who encouraged you, helped you out, lent a ear, even if you never showed appreciation they still stucked by you.

Don't Cheat Brehs

I have experienced the high and lows when it comes to dealing with women.

One of the lowest of the low feelings that can break any man is being cheated on. I've been cheated on twice in my lifetime (that I know off), and although it was a horrible experience, it taught me valuable lessons in life that I will touch on later in this post.

Well everyone has misconceptions about cheating, it does not matter how great you are as a person, how great you treated your partner, how much money you have, the car you drive it can happen to you.

The First Time

The first time I was cheated on I was young and dumb. At that age I thought I knew everything, I was innocent and full of trust and never in my wildest dreams could I think of myself ever been played like those
poor saps you see.

The first time I never thought about it all, when she finally told me that she did I couldn't believe it. I went from anger to sadness to having this pit in my belly. I could not eat, there was not one thing I wanted to do,
my only haven was when I fell asleep as my mind wasn't clouded with painful thoughts then. You think about what you did, could I have done this better or that better when in reality nothing would have changed the outcome.
You think about all the signs you may have missed, how you were a idiot for getting played and start blaming yourself even though you did nothing wrong.  Finally with time you get over it but do you really? more on this later.

The Second Time.

The second time I was cheated on was thankfully not worse than the first.  It still hurt, I still got that bottomless gut feeling, still were clouded with thoughts of pain, but I found out on my own this time.
I had my doubts as she was always talking about her ex and I was like oh really, so I had a logger on my pc and when she used it I got access to her email and fb. And what did I see?  A hidden second fb, messages to her ex, emails to her ex.
The same ex who was so "horrible", that she "hated", yup I was angry in a fit of rage. Pain, angry, and sadness is a horrible mix but thanks to my first experience I was able to exit this situation stronger than I have ever been.

Did being cheated on change me?

Wholeheartedly, you realize you can trust no one. Both women who cheated on me told me they loved me, that they would never cheat, that cheaters disgust them. That they were cheated on in the past and it hurt them so much.  And yet these women
knowing the pain they went to decided to selfishly cheat on me and inflict that hurt and pain on me all for their greed. As a person I can truthfully stand up and say I will never cheat, I have morals and will always remain faithful.

So are you saying don't trust any women?

Pretty much

But every relationship is built on trust, without you have nothing?

There is a quote "trust but verify", and I take it like this, you trust only as much as you can verify, whether it's with a key logger, other forms of snooping etc., I've had exes tell me straight to my face how they love me and care for me and can't wait to get married etc., while 5 minutes before hand they are emailing their ex bf how much they miss him and how great last night was.

So it's better to remain single, don't become emotionally invested and casually date?

Yup pretty much

I think your jaded and bitter, you have to let go of the pain

haha, not jaded or bitter nor am I experiencing pain, the truth upsets those locked into the matrix.


In this day and age with a picture thrown on  a website and a click of a mouse, a women can find someone richer than you, that looks better than you, that says sweeter things than you like that, if you want to trust then go right ahead, and while your at it.... get married brehs

What to look for when choosing a wife

How to choose a good wife

Yes I do rail against marriage etc., but I do know there is a large segment still in the matrix that still will get married (breh's), so what should you guys look for in a wife?

Well here it goes, a long list that if I were to ever get married these are the requirements and what I do, to give my undying love and commitment.

1. Is she Healthy, and if she can have children.

a) This is very important to me, you can get tests nowadays that can look at your genes and tell if you are at a high risk to develop certain type of cancers, dementia, alzheimer etc.
But but i love her, yeah but let's say she has a strain that leads to ALS or early symptoms, do you love her enough to be there when she is stricken in a wheelchair, can't communicate and needs you to wait on her hand and foot for the rest of her life?

b) Can she have children......you see it couples married for year and years, trying to have a child but the results are not happening, it's important to make sure that if you want children that your wife doesn't have a scarred womb etc., because one of the major reasons men get married is to have children of their own.

2. Is she from a strong loving family.

A woman from a strong loving family knows what makes a family, knows the sacrifices her dad and mom made. The fights how they stayed together, how important communication is, the ups and downs of marriages and not to bail when in a rut. As well they were brought up in a loving environment and actually know the meaning of love.

Compared to a woman from a broken family, or raised by a single mom. Hasn't seen what makes a family, hasn't seen the strong bond and love between a dad and a mom, how to keep a healthy relationships etc.  Marrying a broad from a broken family you are headed for disaster.

3. Dig into her past.

Yes dig into her past, find out everything. If you were to buy a car, a house you would want to know the history of it. If the car has been in a accident, if the house was a grow up. So why would you not dig extremely deep and find out everything whether it hurts you or not about the women you want to spend your life with.
I would go as far as to hire a private investigator let him tail her for a few weeks or a month, let him dig into her history, find out her credit rating, find out if she has a criminal record, find out about her exes, her old places of employment EVERYTHING.
Nothing can be worse than marrying a women then finding out she owes 100,000, has trouble keeping a job, or gasp is cheating on you, I would take these steps and more.

4. No prior kids

There are many reasons for this and I will try to go through all of them

a) A woman with a child who is not married to me shows carelessness. I do not care that the rates are so high with children born out of wedlock, as a man would this be the type of women you want to marry? A women who had a child out of wedlock who made a horrible choice, is that what you want to wake up every day for the rest of your life to?
Is that who you would trust your finances with? your home with?  be careful brehs

b) Instead of just being you and her growing in love together, travelling together, enjoying life together. It becomes you, her, baby daddy, and her child.  Great you already have a 4 person family and drama every day till you croak.

c)  Why save her?  There are millions and millions of single childless women out there, don't give up your happiness for baggage.

5. Don't concentrate on looks, concentrate on what she offers.

This is very important, ever seen a chick's  mom and your like eek how did she ever produce a daughter that looks so beautiful, then you look around their house and you see a wedding picture, and your like wow that looks exactly like my girlfriend. Because that's how it goes, women depreciate in looks very fast, just because everything is great now doesn't mean in 5-10-15 years or after kids she will look just as dashing.
So ask yourself this, if your only wifing, ringing, marrying this girl because shes a 10/10  what if she falls off, what if she can't lose the baby weight, what if she chops off her hair and everything starts to sag will you still be around? That's why you have to concentrate on more than looks, how is her personality, how does she treat others, does she nag a lot. Remember you will be stuck with her for the rest of your life, choose wisely.

6. Does she submit to you in your relationship

You are the man and the head of the household, a woman who will not realize this and try to test you and think she is in charge will make a horrible horrible wife.

7. Make sure she is 24-28

24-28 is the age range your wife should be around, not to young and not to old. Marry to young and get hit with the "im sorry but i was so young, i did not get to do everything I wanted", to old like 30, 31, 32 you are just the 2 bdrm bungalow for 110k on the outskirts of the city, aka the starter husband. 24-28 you get a women in her prime, whose graduated and has previous experience in relationships.

8. Make sure your family approves of her as a person.

Sometimes you get so caught up in love etc. that you don't see all the red flags and flaws those who really care about (your family) see. From my own observations, many times when the family doesn't approve not including race or religion the marriage will end in divorce.

9. Don't be unequally yoked.

What I mean if she is Jewish and you are christian your ideologies will clash. If she is a atheist and you are a christian, if she is even semi religious and you are hardcore again the clashes will destroy your marriage.

10. Willing to sign a pre-nup

but I'm broke with only a minimum wage job,  so are you telling me your going to broke and working a minimum wage job 5, 10, 15 years down the line?  You have car insurance on your car but don't expect to be in a accident right?
Protect everything you have..

But yeah if I were to ever get married and wanted children these 10 things I listed are what I base my initial search on.

The Average Woman of Today

The Average Woman of today...

The average woman of today is in the club every weekend

The average woman of today has 10-20 good guy friends

The average woman of today has 150 guys in her phone

The average woman of today dresses scandalous

The average woman of today has 1-2 abortions on her resume

The average woman of today has or had a STD

 The average woman of today cheats on her boyfriend

The average woman of today curses like a sailor

The average woman of today wears to much makeup

The average woman of today seeks attention whether negative or positive

The average woman of today is on dating sites getting 100 msgs a day

The average woman of today expects you to pay her bills

The average woman of today expects you to raise and accept her child out of wedlock

The average woman of today rarely brings any redeeming qualities to the table

The average woman of today is manipulative

The average woman of today is selfish

The average woman of today gets bored easily

The average woman of today is on facebook twitter instagram feeding her ego through likes and followers

The average woman of today would be stoned and called a harlot 3,000 years ago

The average woman of today rides the cock carousel

 The average woman of today gives it up on the first night

The average woman of today is unappreciative

The average woman of today has lewd photos or videos on the internet

The average woman of today follows hypergamy

The average woman of today files for divorce 70 percent of the time

The average woman of today looks for a starter husband

The average woman of today can't tell the difference between a guy who cares about them and a guy who just wants them for sex

The average woman of today is unfit to marry or even call a girlfriend.

Commitment

COMMITMENT

Commitment, ah the word commitment... a word that every women regardless of race or class longs for. No heterosexual woman truly wants to be single without a man in her life at a certain point.  But she told me she loves being single and is not looking for a relationship, ah padawan she’s telling you that because she is not interested in having a relationship with you.

 From the Top

Now to get into this matter of commitment some more…….any women can get sex for the most part whenever she desires, the thing is only a few women will actually get commitment and faithfulness. The thing a lot of women confuse is the  guys who just want to pump and dump from the guys who actually want to commit to them and grow a healthy relationship.  Look all over the world at women complaining about men who won’t commit, or how they slept with a guy early and he doesn’t call backL. What women don’t realize in this generation why would a man commit? Women out there are giving it up for free, women out there are so gullible you can string them along for however you want because you give them the tingles a nice Poindexter type guy won’t.

Let's get it brehs

I remember having a convo with a woman who was in her mid 30’s and she told me she doesn’t care about relationships  etc., she is fine just her and her child…….I was like that’s great but then why are you on a dating site?  That shut her up very quickly.

Rubs hands here it Comes

Now on the other side us men commitment is our VAGINA, what I mean by that it is our most precious thing as men we have. Notice how a lot of women are very protective of their vagina as in waiting for a while to sleep with a guy, to gain that exclusivity aka that commitment.  If you think about it sex in a relationship for the most part equals her giving up her prize ala vagina and you giving up your vagina ala commitment.  If a women gives up her vagina to early she may be viewed as a slut, and if a man gives up his commitment to early he should be viewed in the same light in my opinion.  Wait hold up your calling men sluts?  NO what I’m saying is the same way men have to work for sex, is the same way you should allow women to work for your commitment.  Women want commitment, men want sex. Now how many women out there are actually commitment worthy? well why don't you find out and Get Married Brehs.

Get Married Brehs

Get Married Brehs!

What does this mean?

This quote was forged in the mind of yours truly. After reading and scrolling through countless tales of women cheating on their husband, women filing for divorce, women plotting to murder their spouses etc........Get Married Brehs started to be the war cry of the free man.

Get married brehs should only be used in certain situations usually when a man is getting screwed by his wife,  James has been married to Mary for 20 years with 2 kids, she gets caught up in the fog and decides to leave.  This is when you can use Get Married Brehs.

So in ending this post

Get married brehs!

A Real Man Only Truly Loves Twice

WHAT NO WAY, JUST STOP YOU BITTER INDIVIDUAL!!!

Yes way, a man only truly loves twice in his lifetime and after that the love shown is not authentic and unfiltered, it becomes replicated and watered down .

The First Time

The first time a man will fall in love is probably around the age when he is 18-22, he's young and not that experienced in the game of life. He is guided by emotions more than logic, wearing his heart on his sleeve and uttering such phrases as “he's never felt this way before".

The "sparks" he feels, the first kiss, doing things he has never done before. And then one day he finally gazes into those big ol’ eyes and utters out that L word, I love you. Everything seems perfect, she's the most beautiful girl he has ever laid his eyes upon and the joy she brings brightens up his day.

He trusts her in every which way no suspicions, at all, He’s already thinking about what their kids will look like, getting married, retiring together and then poof. She gets a little distant, she needs space, he finds out she cheated, and he gets dumped. He’s heartbroken, no one will ever treat her how good I treated her he yells out, she will be back he screams.

The pain seems unbearable, why does love hurt so much he ponders?   Maybe it takes days, weeks, months or years but he finally gets over it. He tells himself that he won't make the same mistakes again. His guard is up this time, he’s emotionless. However after talking to folks and realizing that he has to let go off the past, he opens up and tries again. “Not all women are like that”, He tells himself.

The Second Time

He happens to come across a lady; he makes sure to take things slow this time. He keeps on reminding himself of the past pain, but realizes this one is different. It takes awhile, but he takes down his shield ever so slowly, he allows her into his heart, he trusts her without verification. She tells him that she will "never hurt him", that she "loves him". He says nothing yet; he knows that giving his commitment is the one power he still holds in this relationship.

Finally the L word comes out one day and he genuinely means it, he’s amazed at himself that he was able to say that word to another woman again. He feels so alive; he feels great..."hey I can love again".   Weeks go by; months go by, maybe even years.  Then he starts suspecting something is wrong, he digs a little deeper and finds out that he is getting played, his heart sinks down to the pit of his stomach, the familiar unforgiving pain from years past is back this time much worse.

The relationship is over, both times he has truly loved in his lifetime both ended horribly,  his shield is up now permanently, he may move it a few inches here or there when he starts to date again but it will never be fully down again.

He may date again, get engaged, even marry and have children. But the innocent, unfiltered, trust without verification love for a woman won't be replicated, the formula was used up, the Coca Cola love is gone and all that is left is segments of Great Value Coke Love not full unconditional true love.

Wow what a bitter story from a bitter man so pathetic, get a life.

Nah get married brehs!!!

My Introduction

My Introduction

When you don't abide by the archaic PC confroms as a male you will be labeled negatively.
 
Well I can hear the screams and vile words launched in my direction by those who don't agree with my stance.
 
Wow you must be ugly they say, you must never get laid that’s they say, your angry they say.

Let me break this down.
 
1. First off I'm not ANGRY. My doctor has said I have low blood pressure and my personality has never been a loud or boisterous type. If I was angry my vocabulary would consist of calling women such words like “whores, sluts, bitches, gold digging strumpets” but I've never done that. I've never lifted a finger, a fist, or thrown an object at a woman. I've never got in loud shouting match with veins popping or hell even wished ill will, so again please tell me how I'm angry?
 
2.  You must be ugly.

I've never been the one to brag or boast but the long list of women I have canoodled and cavorted with would lead me and others to come to the conclusion that I am not ugly.
 
3. You must not never get laid you virgin, dry penile scum.   

In all honestly I have never in my life begged, asked, or even seduced a woman to have sex, yet I've done well......  so yeah

Now that I have emasculate your false assumptions what more will you throw at me?