Dating Rules to live by!

1. Always act like you have more than one option.

- When you have only one option, you start to do things you normally wouldn't do. Whether that is simping, saying things you wouldn't normally say, or moving to fast. When you have more than one option you are calm, cool and collective, the :ehh: demeanour is something you should maintain.

2..never compliment her on her beauty until you see her without makeup and other enhancements.

-  Fake eyelashes, spray tans, extensions, wigs, weaves, push up bras, garters, makeup, high heels, it's all a show, manipulative tactics. Never say she is pretty, hot, beautiful until you see the real natural her

3. Never travel more than 7.4 miles for a first date.

-  Yes for a first date don't drive way out of the way to meet a broad.  If you were selling something on craigslist would you travel half n hour, 45 minutes a hour? no you wouldn't right? More than likely you would expect that person to come to a location near you because you hold the power you have the item they want. Take the same approach to dating, you are the man of value, you are the man with the power, view yourself as such.

4. Don't pay for her on the first date

- yeah cough up that money for dinner and a movie or whatever, and get that Thanks but no thanks.  On a first date you are not sure you will click will be compatible.  Would you cough up money at car dealership to test drive?  no right it's free, so take the same mentality.

5. Delete her number after the first date

- some may have different views but again these are my rules,  if I go on a first date and it's great if she views me as 

6. Never bring up commitment or exclusivity, and if you do then wait at least 3 months.

- Commitment is the male vagina, never give it up early. Be patient young grasshopper women will always bring up "so what are we", "am i just a fwb to you" etc.,   a man who brings u commitment and exclusivity is a man with no options, a desperate man again refer to rule 1.

7.  Never text first and never text last. And never text more than 7 words in a text.

- I never ever text first, women have my number if they want to contact me then go right ahead. And I never text last, know when to exit a text conversation a one word reply from a female means the convo ends right then and there.   7 words max in a text long drawn out convos should be kept to a phone call not chatting back and forth with a woman

8.  Never cheat

- yup never cheat, as a man in a relationship always maintain morals and values,  if you don't appreciate or care about the broad you are with then dump her,  women all are over the place zero reason to play one for your own selfish greed

9. Never lie

- honesty is the best policy, always be honest

10. Never say I love you first or at all.

-  words are just words, can a deaf person love without saying it? exactly, keep that L word in your back pocket

How to be a Man Like Me - Part 1

 
1. Gain Knowledge
 
A man uninformative is a man that has already lost. In this generation, no one has an excuse not to increase their wisdom, whether through life experiences, courses or reading materials.
 
 
2. Conquer your Fears
 
Whether it is a fear of snakes, fear of failure, rejection or even public speaking, conquer your fears.  A man, who has not conquered his fears, is a man who will always have an Achilles heel a detriment that may heed success.
 
3. Learn to Live Frugal
 
A man that can live frugal is a man that can live anywhere on the earth and survive. Regardless if it is a season of harvest or a season of famine, a man who can live with little is a man unchained.
 
 
4. Turn Your Weaknesses into Strengths.
 
Lebron James three point percentage in his rookie year 29%. Lebron James 3 point percentage 10 years later 40.6 percent. It may have taken ten years to rise ten percent, but through hard work and dedication it became achievable. Whatever weaknesses you may have, work on them diligently and turn them into strengths.
 
 
5. Always Maintain Control of your Thoughts and Actions
 
I don't drink (alcohol or anything with caffeine), smoke, or even take prescription drugs. Not that I think anything is wrong with drinking, smoking etc., I just have always preferred to be in control of my thoughts, actions, words 100% of the time. Alcohol may get you tipsy, drunk, impair your thought process and lead to situations that would not arise if you were sober. Nicotine can get you mildly euphoric as well as highly addicted.
And prescription drugs have side effects that can give you mood swings. Anything that hinders my ability to think or act coherently is something I cut off from your life.
 

I feel sorry for the Good Women out there.......

For real no sarcasm. I feel sorry for the good righteous women out there, who have to deal with the market out there. By good I'm not talking about you, the scandalous dresser, in the club every weekend, binge drinker, sleeping with different men left and right whore.  Nor I'm I talking about you 110 males in my phone, ass and titty shots on instagram, cursing like a sailor  offering no redeeming qualities but a pretty face and cute smile.

I'm talking about the righteous, submissive, loving, grateful woman.  The type of woman who puts others first, and has the qualities you would want in a mother and wife.  The type of woman who doesn't put out, dresses conservatively. has a motherly way with children and respects her man. The type of woman who has traits of loyalty, a great personality and knows the role a woman should play in the relationship.

Why do I feel sorry for you?

Because of the nature of the game, to compete in this generation you have to basically whore yourself out.  To be called and looked upon as beautiful you have to conform to the manipulation tactics of makeup, weaves, wigs, fake eyelashes, nail polish, high heels, push up bras and garters.

Further finding a good quality man with options, who will wait for sex until he knows you, or even marriage is declining rapidly to the level of almost extinction. Finding a faithful man even in the church is rapidly declining as well, maybe it's the slutty nature of the scandalous women of today that has caused this epidemic maybe not.

Oh please any women can go on a dating site and get 100msgs

That is true, but let's look deeper into this, a good genuine woman who wants a loving, monogamous lasting relationship that will grow signs up on a dating site.

She gets 100 msgs in a day.

Yes more than likely 100% of those guys found her attractive in some way. However how many of those guys just want to smash, and how many of those guys want commitment?  And the few guys that would actually maybe want commitment, how many of them aren't obese, rapists, abusers  Ah and there is the key.


So to sum it up, yes I do feel sorry for the few good quality women out there in this generation.

Having to go through life daily figuring out the few good quality men against the sexual offenders, abusers, cheaters, liars, married men pretending their single, man whores, players, alcoholics, druggies, men with kids, men unemployed, men who don't commit, obese men, gay men, whose main goal is to prey upon you if you look half decent.


Ah well, get married brehettes :)

Samson was a simp!

Even if you are not saved the Bible is a great book that teaches you life lessons.  One of the most important things IMO that the bible has taught me is
that the wrong woman can destroy your life. That even though she may be beautiful and has your gaze and you feel sparks and all that does not mean she is good for you. Just off the top of my head I would like to touch on some of these Bible Stories.

Samson 

What the story of Samson taught me was that, Samson was the strongest man in the world,
a man who could slew armies, a man that had no outer weakness it seemed. Just like many men of the world today
we think we are invisible, that we are strong, but boy oh boy we do have some weaknesses.  Delihah was a beautiful woman, and Samson was entrenched,
he was warned not to be unequally yoked, not to mess with women like Delihah but his thirst was to great. How many of us have been there?  a beautiful lady
shows interest you, even though you know she is no good you say shrugs and fall into her trap. Next thing you know your life is stressed out beyond control,
your doing things you never done before and heading toward total destruction.  The simpish tendencies of Samson led to him losing his power, his strength, his dignity, and ultimately his death.
Let this be a lesson to everyone out there if Samson a man of God who was entrusted with great gifts fell due to the beauty of a woman, what makes you think you won't?

Ahab

Ahab was King of Israel, who like many men of today gave up their religion, their purpose, their manhood all because of whom they decided to marry.
While Jezebel was a beautiful woman, a queen, she was so demonic and knew how to play her husband chords to her liking, she literally brought up his own destruction. Again be careful brehs.

Just two of many men in the bible whose reputation, name, spirit, was utterly destroyed because of the wrong women they decide to let in their life.
Many men sit back after being destroyed and want to chastise women who have destroyed them either in court, or just emotional.
These are the same men who got caught up in looks, the same men who wifed the woman they met at a club or a bar.

So what are you saying don't chase after the beautiful girl?

Nah not at all, what I am saying is make sure the beautiful girl you are chasing at is worth it, make sure her beliefs, her views, her lifestyle matches up with yours.

Or it may lead to stress, destruction and maybe even your death.

Dump her before she Dumps You!

Woah, what kind of ludicrous, bitter, stupid information is this? I love my girl and we've been together
for years.

Hold up and hear me out. I do not mean just dump her right now, or dump her maybe even ever. What I mean is when the signs
are shown that she is getting ready to dump you, dump her first. Women emotionally detach, weeks, months, even years in advance
before they drop the hammer on their unsuspecting boyfriend. By reading the signs you can come out on top.

Here are a few signs that you should dump her before she dumps you

1. She seems Distant.

If your girl seems distant, drop the hammer and get out now.  She always made time for you for the months, years you were dating, now she is always busy,
cancelling plans, short phone calls that used to be long, no longer communicating daily. This is where you sever the ties and come out on top. If your girl no longer contacts you like she
once did you are no longer a priority in her life.

2. She needs Space

Whenever a woman tells you to needs space, run for the hills.  In a relationship your partner is either with you or not, if they need space they are basically telling you
they don't want to be with you.

3. The pet names she used to call you stop.

If she used to call you baby all the time, and is now calling you by your government  DUMP HER!!. You are now basically a friend don't allow her to be comfortable emotionally detaching from you
DUMP HER NOW.

Many men are so oblivious to the fact, when their gf is distant, no longer loves them anymore they think it just happaned.  How can you fall out of love with me so fast, look at all I did bla bla.

Men need to wake up and realize nothing happens that fast, it's why when a women dumps you more than likely it has been plotted for awhile she just finally got to the point where she no longer feels the need
to have you in her life. 

Ever notice if you have ever been dumped, you may have texted or talked to your gf every day for years, but once you are dumped just like that you are nothing?   Read the signs boys, it's like when soemone is being
phased out at work, they slowly take away responsibilities from you, they slowly treat you different, you think nothing is wrong with then boom the hammer drops. If your eyes were open you would have realized months in advance
what was happening.  

Quick Thoughts on a few Films

The Notebook

I always remember when I was a "simp", and got dragged to see the movie "The Notebook", as I sat in the theater eating my popcorn I looked over and my girl at the time was crying.

What's wrong I said?     Don't you see it's so romantic, it's true love.   HAHA, let's dig deep into this "true love" that this filth the notebook portrayed.

The odds of a 16 and 17 year old falling in deep love after a summer fling is Absurd. So are we really supposed to believe a chick who was just dating Ryan Gosling did not even go beyond the honeymoon
stage is going to run back to him ten years later when she is engaged to a rich man? yeah right.

Anyone notice how her fiance is also portrayed as a bad man? the villian?  like he was standing in the way of a beautiful love story.
This man wasted years of his life on this chick, built up her self esteem, loved her with all of his heart, and even allowed her to go back to her hometown and see her ex, only to get cheated on and portrayed as the guy standing
in the way of her following her heart.

Women love that kissing scene "I waited for you for seven years, now it's to late"  aka I waited for you now I'm engaged its to late. 
Not even five seconds cheating on her faithful fiance, I'm sure not one female watching that scene was thinking at this time like wow how could she, nah they were crying omg so romantic.
Well not me I was there shaking my head like what an abomination.

And then after this Allie dumps her fiance and runs to Noah, they get married and have kids, and then we are supposed to feel sorry when she is reaping what she sowed as she's dying of alzheimer's?

 

Titanic

Titanic is another film that causes me to shake my head.  Isn't it funny how the faithful man was painted as such a horrible creature, just because he did not want to
share his woman? He spent hundreds if not thousands of dollars on this cruise for his soon to be wife and her mom, only she is out canoodling and cavorting with some poor little kid?

Which man would not be mad? You pay all that money for that trip and are painted in a crude way, while she dances and prances with some pauper. And to even make this guy look more evil,
they portray him going on a lifeboat, like oh no. A young rich man wants to live how dare he, how dare he not float in the freezing water like all the "good men". And then Rose hides from him, are we really that stupid,
we all know women in that time for the most part did not work or were highly educated, so how is Rose going to provide for herself now?

Rose gets married, has kids, yet in her last days she still thinks back like 80 years ago about some boy who wined and dined her for a few days?  Not her loving husband of decades?

Get married brehs!!!!!

Bride Wars

Ah another one of those films.  Here's another horrible man, a guy who stood beside and dated this chick for TEN YEARS. And what does he get out of this?
Dumped at the altar infront of his friends and family, because she doesn't want it anymore. she wants her space. And then a few minutes later, the same chick
who wasn't sure what she wanted, the same woman who needed space that same.......dancing with another man.

Get married brehs!

Remembering J

It's funny how short life is, but when you are young healthy you don't think about it at all.  You think nothing of planning for the future, saying I'll do it tomorrow when you are not even guaranteed the end of today. This past week I witnessed someone dying right in front of me and
it's a feeling I can't shake nor will I ever forget.

It was a typical Sunday like many others, got dressed and headed out to church.  The familiar faces were there, I was sort of in a cranky mood and just sat off to the side.

Praise and worship was good like always lifting spirits, people were singing, dancing and worshipping.  Every week during meet and greet I would always say Hi to this little old lady,
this week I was so cranky I excused myself to the washroom when it took place.  Anyways this little old lady (lol) started attending the church I go to about 4 months ago.

It was shocking to me because she was a Jewish Christian one of the few I have come across. Never once did this lady get angry, upset, she was always happy, always smiling
with a big heart for others. My nieces loved her and she would always hug them, run after them and was diligent in all matters.

After praise and worship, the few people that attended that Sunday went back to their seats. Tithes and offering were taken up, and after that the message of the day was started to be spoken.
Sadly I was on my phone texting away, not really paying attention.  I took a seat somewhat in the back from everyone, still cranky and couldn't wait till church was over. Suddenly I heard a scream and "Open your eyes".

I looked up and everyone was rushing to the front.  My heart was beating fast as a good portion of my family attends this church, and I was scared something happened to them.

 As I reached the front I saw J slumped to the side, skin turning blue. Everyone around me seemed to be calling 911, I was in a daze shocked.  It took the ambulance like 7 minutes to arrive but it felt like hours, as I just stood there
watching CPR performed on J.

They took her away to the hospital, and we all waited hoping for some good news.  A few members of the church followed the ambulance to the hospital and a hour later they returned letting us know that J has passed away.

Sadness overcame me right away, tears were flowing down the faces of everyone. I hate hugging, but at that moment I hugged everyone I came across. I never cry but tears were flowing down my face at that moment.

To literally see someone talking one minute and then dead the next, happy and smiling one minute and then lifeless the next.  That night I could not sleep at all, the scene was playing in my mind over and over and over again.

Here was a woman full of love, who would never harm a fly, who would give her last dollar to someone in need...... dead. And here I was someone that day filled with malice, crankiness, gluttony yet I was alive and breathing.

J was literally a angel and she touched everyone she came across in a great way, I only had the privilege of knowing J for 4 months, but it was a great honour. I will never forget her smile, her encouraging words, and that her last moments on earth was spent in church surrounded by people she called friends.

I love you J!!